Attracting a specific person can be tricky, and most people I know do this in the wrong way, that is why today I am going to share with you how to attract a specific person using the law of attraction.
Can you really attract a specific person?
Wondering if you can attract a specific person by using the Law of Attraction? The answer is YES. Even though you may not always be aware of it, you are constantly manifesting your reality. In this post, I am going to share with you how.
How to attract a specific person using the law of attraction
1) Understand Yourself First
The first step to attract a specific person in your life is to know and understand yourself, you need to know what you like, your needs, your dreams, and ambitions, your dislikes.
Do you like watching movies all weekend or your perfect weekend is going outside? Do you like meat or are you vegan? are you gay, lesbian, bi? Who are you? After answering those questions now you start attracting the perfect partner for you.
2) Enjoy Your Own Company
You’re a whole new person, you need to be able to able to enjoy just being on your own. Think like this, if you do not enjoy your own company, how your partner is going to enjoy your company? Start being comfortable being on your own, this will make you attractive, independent, and not desperate to go out with anyone just for the sake of not being alone.
3) Honor and Respect Yourself
This is like point number two above, you need to honor and respect yourself, if do you want your partner to honor and respect you.
Start treating yourself better, stop taking insults from other people, let go of the negativity around you, and most of all, let go of the past that is still holding you back.
4) Fill Yourself With Love
For me, self-love is the most important love you can express. If you do not love yourself it will be very difficult for others to love you.
Sometimes do silly things like looking up to the mirror and saying to your self your beautiful and I love you, or just be naked in your room alone and appreciate your body, buy yourself good things that make you happy.
5) Boost Your Self Confidence
Self-confidence is a strong attractive force. It is extremely irresistible and will naturally make people show interest in you, and want to be around you. Believe in the ability you have to attract the right person into your life with ease. You should always carry a healthy sense of high self-worth.
There is a study that confident people tend to succeed more in life even though they have fewer qualifications.
Just make sure that you do not be overboard with it as too much confidence looks like arrogance which is not the best quality to have.
6) Make Positive Affirmations
Positive affirmations will increase your vibration and connect you to the desired person. When you read affirmations your mind will start to change and your vibration will increase, this will make it easier for you to identify and connect your the person you want to attract.
Some of the affirmations you can use are:
- My specific person loves me deeply.
- I am first on his/her priority.
- My specific person always thinks about me.
- My specific person is attracted to me alone.
- We have a fulfilling relationship.
- My specific person is always attracted to me
7) Avoid Desperation
No one likes a desperate partner, that is the fact, if do you want to attract the ideal partner you need to avoid desperation.
Fear and desperation have the lowest vibration frequencies, and most people can detect them from far, when they see that you are desperate will run away from you.
You need to let your partner be their own person, even if it means losing them, when you’re not desperate to be with them and you’re not afraid of losing them, the universe will show you the perfect partner for you.
8) Visualize Yourself Being Loved
Visualization is one of the fundamentals of manifestation, you need to visualize as if the partner you’re seeking is already with you.
You need to visualize the person you want to manifest, you need to have a clear image of what you will do to them when you’re with them, how you will be spending time together, what things you will be doing together, and the most important part of this, how they make you feel.
9) Focus on the Person’s Good Qualities
When manifesting a specific person, you need to focus on their qualities, it does not matter if you met them or not.
If you want that person to be a good mother/father, if you want them to have a low or high sex drive (this is very important), if you want a person who takes care of themselves ( goes to the gym, eats the right food, etc), If you want a person with a certain social status, if you want a person who is financially stable, etc.
Those are some of the qualities your person can have, that is very important to know yourself as in step 1 and then to manifest a person who is a perfect match to you.
10) Act as If the Person is Already in Your Life
You need to start acting as if the person you want to manifest is already in your life.
You do not need to go overboard but you can start small, for example, if you sleep in the middle of the bed, you can start sleeping on one side and leaving another side for your partner.
You can start arriving home early from your job or business just to be with your partner, you can give them one closet to put their belongings.
I know these things seem silly and stupid, but by doing them, you are showing faith to the universe that you believe it will deliver that partner to you and you are ready to receive the manifestation.
You need to be in relation with them even before you physically in relation with them.
That is it, this is how you can attract a specific person using the law of attractions, the steps I mentioned in this post work go and try them you will be amazed how things are evolving.